Why do I feel so upset when I get home?

Posted by: alisrowe, May 6, 2025

Recently I went out and did something new. I had spent a lot of time worrying about this activity and a lot of time trying to mentally prepare for it. It was something that I wanted to do, but I still felt anxious.

The activity didn’t go as I expected. I came home feeling disappointed and very depleted, especially given all the mental effort I had put in.

This scenario inspired me to think about some of the various reasons autistic people might feel upset after having done something.

I remember also how I used to feel so upset every time I came home from school.

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